During a visit to a retirement home in Pát, near Budapest, I encountered two senior women dressed as a bride and groom. Intrigued by their choice of attire, I captured their image in the lounge and engaged them in a lengthy discussion. We spoke about their life experiences, their thoughts on longevity, and the importance of maintaining a zest for life in later years. Both women highlighted the value of a long and joyful marriage; 87-year-old Magdolna shared that she was married for over 50 years, while 86-year-old Irén enjoyed 62 years with her spouse before his passing.
In Hungary, the average monthly pension is roughly equivalent to £500, making it challenging for retirees to cover basic expenses, let alone indulge in leisure activities or travel. The health status of Hungarian pensioners also tends to be less favorable compared to their counterparts in Western countries. Additionally, securing a spot in a retirement home can be a lengthy process, often requiring years of waiting for a suitable opening.
Through my photographic series titled “Carnival at the Retirement Home,” I aimed to highlight the resilience of individuals who have navigated these challenges and continue to lead fulfilling lives. These individuals serve as inspirational figures not only for their contemporaries but also for the younger generation to consider their future.
The dynamics around moving into a retirement home have evolved over the years. Previously, many elderly individuals found themselves placed in homes by family members during times of crisis. Nowadays, a growing number of seniors are recognizing their needs and proactively exploring their options, choosing homes that best suit them.
As people age, their personality traits often become more pronounced—both positive and negative. How an individual adjusts to life in a retirement home can vary significantly based on their personality and past experiences. Many, like those who partake in carnival festivities, can approach this new chapter with joy and enthusiasm.
When I inquired about their secrets to a fulfilling life, Magdolna attributed her longevity to good genetics, claiming she has never experienced headaches or pain. She remains active by taking four long walks each week. Irén echoed the importance of maintaining an active lifestyle, advocating for regular walking and travel while also emphasizing the wisdom of living within one’s means. She recalled her grandmother’s advice: “Only spend what you have, because debt eats from the same plate as you.”
This project was a refreshing change of pace from my usual coverage of conflicts for Telex, the independent online news outlet where I work. With Hungary’s proximity to Ukraine, I’ve reported on various socio-political issues, including the ongoing war and recent election campaigns. However, the series captured during the carnival, a celebration marking the end of winter, was vibrant and uplifting, filled with joy and creativity.
I have learned the importance of preparing for retirement rather than allowing it to unfold passively. It is essential to build both emotional and financial resources by setting goals, exploring new interests, stepping outside our comfort zones, and embracing creativity.
This isn’t my first endeavor focused on retirees; I’ve always felt a strong connection with the elderly, stemming from my experience of losing my grandparents at a young age. Engaging with contented seniors brings me joy and fulfillment.
This interview was conducted by Amy Fleming. János Bődey is a nominee for the Sony World Photography Awards 2026, with an exhibition scheduled at Somerset House in London from April 17 to May 4. Readers of The Guardian can use the code GUARDIAN15 for a 15% discount on exhibition tickets, valid until May 4 at 5 PM.
Born in 1977 in Zalaegerszeg, Hungary, the highlight of Bődey’s career is the inclusion of “Carnival at the Retirement Home” in the Sony World Photography Awards shortlist, along with being recognized as one of 20 awardees by the International Photography Festivals Association in 2025. His advice for others? Embrace career changes fearlessly. After graduating with a degree in social policy from the Budapest University of Economics, he spent 13 years in corporate management before transitioning to photojournalism at the age of 35.
