Does life seem excessively easy these days? Are you looking to complicate it? While this may appear to be an absurd inquiry, especially in a week marked by global tensions, it is worth considering. I was taken aback when I learned about “friction-maxxing,” a concept that promotes engaging in slightly more challenging, time-consuming, or traditional activities as a form of resistance against the encroachment of technology in our lives. This includes cooking from scratch instead of opting for delivery, navigating using road signs rather than relying on GPS, or reading physical books instead of listening to audiobooks. These activities are framed as a way to combat the pervasive influence of technology, yet for many facing hardships, shortcuts can often feel like a necessity rather than a luxury.
Recently, the Washington Post published a list of friction-maxxing activities, suggesting that meeting friends face-to-face instead of messaging on WhatsApp, or attempting to remember facts instead of using Google, could enhance one’s life. However, this list seems to rebrand simple living under a trendy name. Previous generations would likely have considered these tasks as routine, and the notion that undertaking them could enhance one’s character is quite bewildering.
Upon further reflection, it becomes clear that the intent behind friction-maxxing is to highlight that these tasks are not inherently difficult for most individuals. Kathryn Jezer-Morton, who introduced the term earlier this year, argues that these activities can bring profound joy and meaning to our lives. Yet, she notes, we have succumbed to the belief that “reading is dull; conversing is uncomfortable; exercising is exhausting; going outside is intimidating,” leading to a reliance on apps for what should be emotional engagements, akin to how household appliances liberated past generations from physical chores.
If one is a socially awkward tech enthusiast eager to delegate personal interactions to focus solely on work, the relentless pursuit of convenience may seem logical. However, what happens when one desires a life that is not so streamlined that it passes by unnoticed while glued to a screen? More critically, does the elimination of minor struggles in our lives lead to increased dissatisfaction, as well as a decline in cognitive abilities?
The current generation of AI tools differs from earlier labor-saving devices in that they primarily automate mental rather than physical tasks. While using a washing machine may have slightly reduced physical strength, it did not diminish essential skills. Conversely, the long-term effects of relying on AI tools in professional settings remain uncertain. A study by Carnegie Mellon University and Microsoft revealed that while these tools could boost efficiency, they might also hinder independent problem-solving skills as users become overly dependent on technology.
Furthermore, a study from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology indicated that writers who utilized large language models to generate their content exhibited reduced activity in brain networks related to cognition, attention, and creativity. Researcher Nataliya Kosmyna emphasized that “your brain requires friction to learn.” The act of actively engaging with information enhances retention, which could explain why students using ChatGPT struggled to recall quotes from essays they had just submitted.
If Kosmyna’s findings hold true, it implies that the experience of reading could diminish not only for the audience but also for the writer, who misses a crucial part of the creative journey by bypassing the process of articulating their thoughts and recognizing flaws in their work. Personally, I prefer to transcribe interviews the traditional way, replaying recordings to type out what I hear, instead of using AI transcription tools. This process allows me to pick up on nuances I may have overlooked initially.
What may appear to be mundane tasks that could be easily automated often play a vital role in the thought process. If this is the case at work, it prompts us to consider its relevance in our personal lives, especially as AI tools increasingly infiltrate our daily routines.
As life becomes more convenient, managing emotions may grow increasingly difficult. Making tasks slightly more challenging encourages individuals to pause and reflect rather than act impulsively. This is likely why people are more prone to saying regrettable things in a hasty text compared to when they take the time to write a thoughtful letter. Perhaps the greatest skill at risk in a world with decreased friction is the ability to exercise patience with others, who can often be quite frustrating.
Coexisting with loved ones can be a source of friction, and raising children epitomizes this struggle if one hopes to accomplish anything. The essence of democracy also…

















